WW Conversation

[thriver]

Matt, thanks for your advice.

As with most of the situations I've read on this board, mine is complicated. Let me try to clear it up:

- W filed for divorce almost 1 year ago
- I resisted (a lot) in the first few months, did all the wrong things (begged, pleaded, cried, pursued)
- We physically separated 9 months ago and split up financial accounts and assets (property, vehicles, cash, retirement accounts)
- Since the separation, she has taken no action to finalize the divorce. In fact, she missed our first court date and keeps asking me when "our" court dates are!?!
- It's like she's perfectly ok with maintaining this separated state and I don't know why.
- To answer your question, she is "getting" nothing from still being married. Everything is separated and we are both supporting ourselves at this point
- She is certainly not getting any emotional needs met by me because we have very little contact.
- Also, no cake-eating from her.

That's it in a nutshell.