I'm not a vet, but I'm having trouble understanding. Let me make sure I'm clear:
- WW wants a divorce but isn't willing to do anything to make it happen - you do not want a divorce
I get protecting yourself financially. I don't know the details of your finances, so I don't know what she's "getting" still being married. Is there a lifestyle you're supporting now that she wouldn't maintain after a D?
Ultimately, in my opinion, if you don't want a divorce, stop greasing the wheels.