Tonight after a hard conversation around splitting bills and husband moving out (that he initiated) I decided to be his friend and ask him how he is doing with all this. I chose to ask questions and reflect back what I heard him say. And do you know he said.... The less crazy I get the more doubts he has that he is making the right decision! He is afraid because he has doubts around his decision and the longer I am "normal" the bigger his doubts grow. He shared he was certain before but not certain now. He also added that he figured doubts were normal and that everyone has them. He asked if I did and I tried not to get sucked in.
We went to the gym and had some family time then came back. He asked to cuddle and shared he is afraid I will go crazy again. Ha! This is the new me husband. I don't want that other crazy angry lady back. I will continue my DBIng and look forward to more small steps.
He even came in to say good night and give me a kiss before going to his room!!!
M:34 H:34 S:4 I love you's:2004 Married: 2008 BD: March 2015 EA revealed: May 2015
