I am really pleased about the 12 steps program, in essence I believe it fits beautifully with DB.
I see step 1 as detachment plus. Acceptance to me was a big deal and it helped me breathe quite a lot more easily. I felt unburdened if that makes sense, in many ways I felt connected to the continuum of the 12 step room and the beginning of my higher power.
Despite all I achieve my first tiny door open to Serenity. It was an important moment and a milestone on my recovery road. I am sure there will be many more.
You don't have to let go Msd but you can choose to do it.
I am so happy for you.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW