Ok caliguy. I get it. Calm down. Don't let it get to you. Fair enough. It's one of those situations that I recon is just so unavoiadable. But you are right. Sleep on it at least.
Well .. in a word ... its fear.
Fear can make us do some things that we would not normally do .. so by taking a step back it prevents you from a panic move, you can not control her nor what she is doing, you can only control yourself right?
Sleeping on it ... well .. I've been there, if you get much sleep you are one of the rare and lucky ones, this stuff will eat at you from every angle. That being said ... sometimes just knowing this is not something you can fix tonight, its enough to get you to relax a bit. It took some time to get your M to this point, it will take a bit to get it back ... trust the process, yourself, and focus on the goal not the current place you are at .... btw the goal should be where YOU want to be, not so much the W or your M, what kind of man do YOU want to be after all this??
