That makes complete sense Matt

In regards to the Bday party I have this weekend; the couple who invited me invited my W and D2; they are mutual friends but my W only knows them because of me. They have no idea anything is wrong with our marriage. Should I tell my W whose bday party it is or should I just leave it at the least amount of details as possible?

"D2 and I are going to go to a bday party Saturday evening" and then see if the W digs for details
Or
"D2 and I are going to joe's bday party Saturday evening"


Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15