Quite a lot zues. The house gets sold for a start. We both love this place but now it has to go. Shame because if we worked this out we didn't need to do that.
Hello NDY,
Sorry I haven’t been online much lately, but I’ve been thinking about your situation almost daily.
I loved Zues’ question, and your response makes sense. Just like me, you have been married 14 years. Do you feel that if you “throw in the towel, “ forcing you to put the house on the market (same with my sitch, I’m sure) it might make your W realize what she is losing? If that is the case, what if it backfires on you?
Obviously, it’s your call, like for all of us LBS’, to decide when we’ve had enough. My impression has been that you, at times, were making progress.
I’m sure everyone on this forum can understand your hurt and anger – God knows I sure can. Your W’s actions have brought an abrupt end to things that you thought were good, right, and secure in your life. Are you sure you are ready to give up? 100% sure? If you are not 100% sure, do not give up my friend.
I will dedicate a prayer for you in a few minutes . . .
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
