She has S9 and is staying at her mothers, this gives you both some space. Space can at times be very good, sure you both love that house but this is one of the consequences for the actions she CHOSE to make ... maybe she will start feeling it and by not acting out, by being calm ... you flip this. She starts to wonder why NDY is so calm with this .. why isnt he chasing me ... well there is no chasing a WAW when she is in a A with a OM that's why ... as you have read here ... its out of your control .. DETACH.
