Point I might be getting at, is when we at least see why they may say something (calling all the shots), even if its based on irrational thoughts, it lets us realize its not something personal. Then we can let the comment brush off us instead of reacting to it.
You shouldn't tell her you will pull your hair out either if she says that, never let her see what your buttons are. She may want to push them more.
My sitch is going. I know my strategy, I know what I need to be doing. I believe things will work out. Just struggling at times with how difficult it is.
Last edited by Fogg; 06/10/1509:27 PM.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
