thanks for the clarification - also by saying she doesn't have the money, that means I would drop my L which I am not inclined to do. She has asked me many many times to drop my L so we can work this out together. Not any more.
I can't tell you how many times she has deceived me and drop kicked our family to the curb, financially, emotionally, spiritually, physically, all of it. Now she wants me to "trust" her.
