Yeah, I just meant if she is lieing about having the money, why ask for more time to save up money. It just delays what she wants, the D.
I agree with you, you do have to protect your family. You don't need to think whats happening is your fault either. Shes responsible for her actions, which is to break the family apart, A and D.
Yes, she does want what she wants when she wants it. That's been clear, I was just making the observation it may not be a lie (to her) when she says it. You standing up for yourself does take control from her so she sees it as her being powerless. Not that it matters since its her fault, just a possibility of where that comment may come from.
Last edited by Fogg; 06/10/1509:23 PM.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be