She wanted to "save up" some money - that is why she asked for me delay my response to her divorce petition.
My job now is to protect myself and my children from this continued nightmare scenario.
I am sorry for whatever consequences fall on both of us for this situation. I wish it had never happened in the first place. Most of all I feel terrible for our innocent kids in this who will lose no matter what.
I told her if she mentions the phrase "calling all the shots" I will pull out my hair. She did not laugh. She never used that phrase before the mess started. She wants what she wants, when she wants. If I object or say no, "I am "calling all the shots".
