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My job is to take care of me and my kids. And that's all the court will say also. Kept asking what's changed


I wish there was an emotion sign that showed eyes rolling, b/c that's what I'm doing. I don't know how you stayed controlled when she said that one!

Listen 3kids, you are going to be okay. I hate so badly this has happen to you and the children. You are a wonderful daddy and you are going to be a wonderful catch for some lucky gal. May not be too comforting to hear right now, but you will. Your threads have shown over & over your capacity to love, and those are the people who can find others to love, too. Those are the lives that are to be lived to the fullest.

I am proud of you and how you stuck to your guns when she started that same old story about not knowing what she wanted to make her happy. You handled it perfectly. And, if you had swallowed that hook, she would have continued to use the same bait.

You have grown so much, and for that you can feel proud of yourself.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!