Oh, getting used to the lying has been hard for me, too. I have to realize that I can't believe anything... Sandi's rules are so right! But the thing is... I'm fairly convinced she's lying to the OW, too. Right now, she's just a bundle of lies left and right. All the more reason to just worry about me and let things fall where they will as time goes on. There may come a time when the lying stops, and then I'll know where we stand. But for now? It's insanity, and the OW is too stupid or "in love" not to realize it. Heh.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19