First post. Desperate for advice.

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My goodness. The pace that the threads come in. So much pain. I feel for you all.

I have noted that there is a lot of focus on WS being willing to end things and have NC. I get that. So you keep DBing until the WS is ready to end and come back. THEN you expect NC.

In my situation there is no 1 OM. There is the internet. There are probably 4 or 5 chat buddies. She is addicted to the "high" of what is new and exciting. Also addicted to the need for affirmation that was not being fulfilled by our dysfunctional marriage.

How do I approach this when the OP is a more of a thing than a he??