Just an update. He has been showing me his phone and I've been randomly "checking" it also. The defensiveness on his side has lessened a lot. Our counselor said to positively reinforce him when he is more open and transparent and so I have thanked him for being more transparent and open to me. It is a start. I hope it continues. I don't want to have my old marriage. I want a new one where we both have improved. A couple of weeks ago, I was crying every day. I've found myself recently not crying anymore. I pray that it continues to get better.
Sometimes though, I question why he's now trying to work on the marriage. I can't help to think, is this going to last? I guess this is normal?
Thank you all for your continued guidance.
Me: 36 H: 37 T:11 M:9 S9 D3 M - 11/2005 H not in love with me anymore- 2/2015 D mentioned - 2/2015 H wants to save M - 6/2015
