My IC said to me - in all this process, there is nothing more important than your own relationship with yourself...your comment above just reminded me of that..

Well done for not contacting your H! And hopefully you are planning some nice things for yourself with your new found (albeit un-asked for) freedom smile


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus