I should mention that she is staying in the spare room on weeknights & we share the master bedroom on weekends. This has been the case since she moved back in. It was her suggestion more than mine. Anyways, last night around midnight, she wakes me up, tells me she misses me and wants to know if I mind if she spends the night.
What!?
Let me ask something. Have you ever read up on the subject of a transparency plan? You have a W who admitted to an A, and she has no consequences, and no accountability. She comes into the MBR when she decides, otherwise sleeps in a different room. Yes, she is totally running this show!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
What!?