So here's a new way of thinking about this "I do't have money for a lawyer bit".
My IC said "Did you consider that she is lying?"
Lightbulb flash - no I had not considered her to be lying. Why, because I am still stuck in the mindset of who she used to be. That person is gone, dead, left the building. The new person lies, cheats and steals regularly to me and lots of other people.
So, yeah, she is probably lying about not having any money - it's another sob story of why I should drop my L. That would also explain why she wanted me to talk to her AP - she would give me the same sob story about not having any money for a lawyer and how their being together is really in the best interests of all of "us".
That also made me think - since all of this happened - my W has referred to "all of us" meaning AP and her wife and kids and Me and our kids. She already thinks of all of these people as "us". She even refers to their their favorite restaurant as "our" restaurant, and "our" coffee shop ad "our block".
I am sorry to inform her but my "us" is me and my two children. Her "us" is her and the circus freak. Good Lord.
She has a bizarre fantasy reality she has created and I want NO PART of any of it.
