Yes Wonka... you're right. I'm looking at the big picture: being independent, living simply, at peace, happy with how I'm spending my days and contributing to the world. Getting there requires SMART goals. Right now, it's easy to see what's not attracting her, which is where I see the 180's come into play. So...
-Move from unhappily unemployed to meaningfully employed(I have an interview tomorrow, fingers crossed) -Become more actively involved with volunteer and ministry work at church and in the community -Physically separate -Build the tiny house and demonstrate a life of simplicity and joy -Oh, and exercise more. Exercise makes everyone attractive!
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
