Originally Posted By: Wonka
NDY,

There's a better approach to diffuse things with W than recording and playing it back. This method will just rile her up more.

Calmly inform her that you will not speak with her unless she is calm and tell her that you will walk away if she persists in spewing uncontrollably. You really need to read up on the Boundaries Cheat Sheet. Techniques and strategies are all in that thread.


Hi wonka, where is that thread? I probably missed it from cadets homework (feels like a lifetime ago). I remember something but can't recall.

wonka. I found it.

Must remember to go back to the homework threads every now and again.


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.