as I mentioned in my prev. post yesterday my morning started out with W seeming a little "off" again. When I got home from work she was getting ready to meet her girlfriends for dinner. I told her I was taking the dog for a walk & she said she was short on time but wanted to walk with me at least as far as the end of the street. We chatted a bit & when we reached the end of the street she gave me a kiss and said she had to run. I told her to have fun & that I'd see her whenever she got home. I didn't ask when she'd be home or even to let me know if she was going to be late as I'd normally do. About 5 minutes later she sent me a text, it simply said "P.S. I love you" When W got home we talked & snuggled for a bit before bed. I should mention that she is staying in the spare room on weeknights & we share the master bedroom on weekends. This has been the case since she moved back in. It was her suggestion more than mine. Anyways, last night around midnight, she wakes me up, tells me she misses me and wants to know if I mind if she spends the night. I have to admit this was a good feeling, but don't know if it was a great idea that I let her stay!?! Any thoughts on this? Also, I feel that she is definitely running the show when it comes to sleeping arrangements, also, this isn't the first time she's crawled in on an "unscheduled" night. I have no doubt that she'll be back in the spare room again tonight. So, should I be telling her to decide what she wants, either stay with the program or move back into bed on a full time basis?? I don't really think its fair that she's able to do whatever she wants just because she's feeling a specific way on any given day!
