To be clear, my wife has served me with divorce paperwork. We tried to mediate but that did not work out.
My L is drawing up my portion of the D paperwork, I will review, approve or not, and upon my approval he mails to W. She will review and either decide to meet with my L and negotiate/mediate or not. This could drag out a while.
My W has told me that she has no funds for a lawyer and asked me to delay the process for about 6 months or so, she can save up funds for her to get her attorney. This may or may not happen given her lack of budgeting skills and her spending her money on AP.
Are you suggesting that I have my lawyer not send the letter and wait until my W saves up funds to hire a L and then proceed?
My feeling is that if I instruct my L to wait until my wife saves up the funds so she can get her own L the that is to my and kids disadvantage.
