Once she gets the letter from my L - there is still time to negotiate. I am amenable to negotiating on anything except 50/50 on kids which is non negotiable.
That will be on the letter and if she and I choose to negotiate or mediate some terms we can do that in my L office.
You want to be sure that W either contacts your L directly or secure on herself. I wouldn't push this along UNTIL she makes the first move. Don't facilitate it. w needs to face the consequences of her own choices and she'll find out for herself soon enough.
Sit still and wait. You've done your part by having your L draw up the papers.
Originally Posted By: HeavyD
So we will still be negotiating up until we sign the paper. We can stop the legal process at any time if she chooses to. Her choice at this point, hire a L or not. Accept the terms or try to negotiate with me and my L.
You would want to be sure to negotiate through your L. I only communicated through my L when it came down to negotiations with Ms. Wonka. My L acted as a buffer for me which protected me both emotionally and legally.
