Once she gets the letter from my L - there is still time to negotiate. I am amenable to negotiating on anything except 50/50 on kids which is non negotiable.

That will be on the letter and if she and I choose to negotiate or mediate some terms we can do that in my L office.

That could take a while if I wanted it too. So we will still be negotiating up until we sign the paper. We can stop the legal process at any time if she chooses to. Her choice at this point, hire a L or not. Accept the terms or try to negotiate with me and my L.

Based on her behaviors, she is set to "kill" this marriage and move on to her new and happy life.


Was made a better person by DB'ers