Many people like to tell me that karma will catch up with her, her relationship is doomed to fail, etc. Though I do feel a need for some checks and balances here, it would bring me no joy to see her have a crummy life, partially for my kids sake. So, my question is, how often do folks in here see the WAS and OM relationship work out? How quickly does it typically fall apart? I honestly think my spouse and OM have calculated a master plan of sorts and wouldn't be surprised if they have marriage timeline outlined. They've been like two teenagers planning their runaway from home in their attitude and approach to all this.
As a side note, she gets really angry when I have a different opinion about pretty much everything these days. It's like she has a script in mind and how dare I waver from it. Exhausting to deal with. As I have tried to point out to her, we are having to do more coordinating now than ever before and for the most part we are doing it. But like everything to do with me, she focuses on the negative, partially I fear as an excuse to reduce my time with the kids.
