People tend to affair down, which is odd, I would think they were really trying to get someone hotter than the left behind spouse.

I am certainly not trying to rain on you hopefulness but I don't see anything that would make a difference. If it isn't this guy, it is a different guy. It doesn't have her coming back to you because he is a drunk or that he had a heart attack. Until she says I want to try our marriage again and actually shows that she is sincere, there are just breadcrumbs she may be tossing to keep you interested in her.

Keep working on your own life.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory