Yeah .. the closer that gets, the more pressure she feels .. so she psychs herself up like she is about to play a championship game .. she is trying to put her game face on.
As far as the fees ... absolutely, you can have that as part of the settlement, this is all in your court and under your control. Protecting yourself and the kids is the only thing to be concerned about and you are on that ... so just watch and wait to see what happens. She may very well need this to move and do the work, sometimes they are stuck at this point and feel its the only way out .... once this is done she will have run out of excuses and be faced to deal with her misery.
