That push pull dance is a tricky one ... I know it all to well. Does appear like me you are to availible to her .... she (like my W) uses the kids as the net to keep you close, its a very tough river to navigate and seems to work against everything we 'think' we should do ... but I have found the more you can detach the more she will fear losing you ... or at the least question herself.
Just keep this stuff in mind ... a few posts ago you mentioned she called and you answered ... she said she missed you ... but what if you did not pick up that call>? How much more would she miss you then? Ya know .. because you are so darn busy living this new life that you did not ask for but will make the most of. Things to keep in mind.
What 180's have you been working on, and the GAL activities .. what I have read has been focused on your W (The reason I ask is I do the same and it helps to be called out on it and re-focus on what we need to do)
