My W texted me a couple times yesterday. The first time she was sending pics and videos of our D2 at dance class and I just responded "shes adorable" the other 2 texts were just funny things our D2 did at home and I ignored those texts. I feel bad doing this, but I don't want to come across as just being friends texting about a common interest (our D2).
I just don't want to come across as so unloving that it pushes my W further away. Anyone who has gone dark can probably understand, just looking for advice/opinions/encouragement on this. Curious if I should go as dark as possible or if I should respond to texts about our D2. Confused.
I think when it's about kids, it's ok to reply in a kind of vague way you did. Remember, 80% of what they gave you. I wouldn't go around sending tons of pictures and messages to her when you have D2 though. It's a fine line and I think these no RIGHT answer. But if my W sends something about the kids, I want to be sure to reply. If she sends something about HER, I'll only reply if it's some specific question.
