My W texted me a couple times yesterday. The first time she was sending pics and videos of our D2 at dance class and I just responded "shes adorable" the other 2 texts were just funny things our D2 did at home and I ignored those texts. I feel bad doing this, but I don't want to come across as just being friends texting about a common interest (our D2).
I just don't want to come across as so unloving that it pushes my W further away. Anyone who has gone dark can probably understand, just looking for advice/opinions/encouragement on this. Curious if I should go as dark as possible or if I should respond to texts about our D2. Confused.
Me: 32 Her: 29 M: 5 T: 11 D2 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me) W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15 Papers served 6-3-15 Temporary Order 7-15-15 W Moved out 7-17-15