Vapo and others. I HAVE and continue to change for myself - I don't want that point to be missed. Where I was getting confused and still don't know that it was answered was DB talks about looking your best, acting your best and being overly positive to ww in your interactions.
If we truly make changes for ourselves, why do that? It seems THAT aspect is really for her.
Rip - I've been doing just this. Bought some new clothes, Cologne, shoes, etc. but I'm not doing it for her. I'm doing it to feel more confident. I'm doing it so that I can have better interactions with her when I do see or talk to her. I'm not doing it to try to impress her.
