Me: 39
Her: 38
2 Daughters: 3 & 10

Our marriage has been rocky for years. Many ups and downs. Many "close calls" where I felt like things might be at an end. We always came back.

Lately though, things were in a nearly permanent rut. We had virtually no intimacy (no kissing, closeness, couple time, and NO sex). I had virtually given up pursuing her. We were roommates. She said things, she complained, I heard, but had no more tools left in my toolbox. Also, I was suffering from "what's the point?"


Me: 39
W: 38
T-18yrs M-13yrs
2 Girls: 10 & 3
EA BD 5/24/15
Separate Bedrooms 6/12/15
PA BD 7/3/15
Separate Residence 8/8/15