Im not sure when your work troubles started. When my bd happened I was the director of a program. Was there until 2 years ago. Everyone looked up to me. But I became very depressed. Some who worked under me were less than understanding even throwing me under the bus and complaining to upper management. I was feeling very much like you. I wasnt functioning. Some people including your ex will use this time of weakness to manipulate you and kick you when down. It is hard to get your confidence back. It took me some time. I preach the following to many. Not sure if they get it at times. The way it works is that it boils down to your thinking. How you think of a situation causes how you feel and how others view you. The worse you think about uourself the more mistakes you are bound to make. The trick is challenge or stop your thinking as it is occuring. Many of you maybe thinking about you is probably incorrect.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
