Thanks. I have seen this beneath all the other first posts and I've read most of it. It is so hard. If I push her away, won't she just run to them?
I've been seeing this a lot lately. There is nothing said here that supports "pushing your wife away". The key is to take the focus and attachment you have for her away and put it on you. Focus on your growth, your 180s, your life.
But you still want to have good, healthy interactions with your wife. You just don't want to go around initiating them.
