I agree with Claire - perhaps acceptance is a better aim. That doesn't mean that things will never change, just that they are as they are for now. I'd love to see you building friendships in ways other than dating too...are there any new things you would like to do now you have the opportunity? I know the 'opportunity' may not be what you wished for, but it can be seen as one I think?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
