But trust me, she will notice, they always do. Do not think for one second that just because you do not see her, she does not notice. There are hundreds of other channels for her...
Ripken, I read through your entire thread and our situations are very similar, minus the kids, which I know is a significant piece of the puzzle. I just wanted to let you know that I struggle with the point above too. In my sitch, I basically have zero interactions with my WW (we don't even have kids, so probably less than most). I've seen this question asked many times on this board and I haven't seen a satisfactory answer as to HOW our WW's will notice our changes when they don't see us or talk to us. All I have seen are generalities or assumptions.
I'm hardly one to give advice since I'm so new to this process myself, but I wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you. Best of luck and stay strong!
Me: 34 W: 30 Together: 11 years Married: 4 years BD: 4/2014 A Discovered: 5/2014 WW Filed: 7/2014 Separated: 8/2014 Divorced: 10/2015
