Depends, is D what you want or are you just finalizing it for her?
Fogg - No, I don't want the D, but I'm getting closer to that place where I can see myself being happy with or without her in my life. I couldn't have imagined that 9 months ago. I'm nowhere near ready to start dating, but right now, I'm tired of limbo, I'm tired of her not caring and I'm tired of her selfish behavior.
I don't know what to do, I'm very confused and can't think straight after a year of this mess. We have a final court date in mid-July, although it will probably be moved up since I will be out of state that week. I don't want the D, I just want to be prepared.
Knowing that, how should I handle this? Should I:
1. Have the paperwork drawn up and ready for the eventual court date and only respond if she initiates some action. 2. Let the WW finish what she started. 3. Something else...
Me: 34 W: 30 Together: 11 years Married: 4 years BD: 4/2014 A Discovered: 5/2014 WW Filed: 7/2014 Separated: 8/2014 Divorced: 10/2015
