I think I've typed up 3 replies now to various parts of this conversation and deleted them because I didn't like how they came out.
Anyway
I would just say try not to take things so personally HD. WW is on a journey to find herself, to fix herself. Yes, she is destroying the family, but it wasn't her intention when she set out. This isn't about you, its about her and always has been. Even if this path is the wrong answer to her problems, sometimes we need those failures to see the right answer that's been blind to us. If you keep thinking about the emails of how deeply in love they are or how she says she isn't in love with you anymore the frustration/anger will continue to get worse. Let go and have her figure this out without putting unneeded pressure on her anymore.
Last edited by Fogg; 06/09/1511:31 PM.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be