The END Hopefully they live happily ever after....

[DFE]

I took your advice Cadet and Mahhhty and didn't contact my ex. It was hard but I resisted and I am not as angry anymore. I am still full of anxiety but working on getting help. It seems everyone you talk to has a different opinion.

I saw a new therapist today. I told her how hard co-parenting is when your ex won't speak to you. Now he isn't taking them to their activities and I can't say anything because we don't speak.

She asked what would be ideal for me and I said to have my family back together. To have my H back but in a healthy healed relationship. She said then why don't you ask for it? I told her he would think I am crazy. I wouldn't even know what to say and honestly all I want right now is to work on our friendship. I don't know if I can get past the hurt. She said what do you have to lose. All he can say is NO!!!! Isn't that bad enough?

Thoughts? Words of wisdom? I know him. He is fuming right now because he thinks I have done him wrong in some way. Until he calms down we will continue like this and it isn't in the best interest of our kids. I am just lost and confused. Just when I thought I was getting help she put another thought in my head.