You need to go back to Heavy's previous threads to read up on why we all do not encourage to do this DIY D approach and go to mediation with W. W has been trying to get Heavy to drop her L so she can steamroll over Heavy and screw her over legally.
It is all in those threads.
Wonka that's not my point.
Mediation as part of a D process with an L has a soundness. No one would ever suggest dropping an L in any case. There is a place for both. I would add that mediation is considered essential here in the UK in some divorce cases, Judges won't hear a case unless it has been undertaken.
It slows the process.
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Last edited by Vanilla; 06/09/1511:03 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
