I am not so angry and I am so sorry that comes across in my posts. Yes, I am frustrated and bewildered. I think I mentioned that I felt like a dog being jerked around on a chain.
All of this is beyond belief, but I would take my W back if she would only give up her AP which she won't. She knows I want it because I have told her so and there is nothing else I can do. She told me earlier than she wanted someone to fight for her, and our marriage, I did that, and now there is no one left to fight...
I can't force someone to love me who has clearly stated so many times now that I can't even count - I AM DIVORCING YOU. I DON'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE - I AM IN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP. GET IT THROUGH YOUR HEAD.
I have instructed my L to not be hasty in this process but it has been 9 months now. We have to agree before it is signed off on and then it's 6 months in the system.
So, it will be well over a year before it actually signed and presented I am guessing.
