The final push

[NDY]

I'm sorry. But I thought this might happen. If you push someone, they might push back. Both people have to agree in order for boundaries to work. If someone is dead-set on texting, they will text.

Jal, would you give an alcoholic booze? No, of course you wouldn't. Why would you? Sometimes pushing is necessary. I'm sick of the softly softly approach. All it got me was her getting even further into her A. Nah, no longer. Done with that.

I get the lighthouse stuff but right now it's about growing a pair. No more no less.

I see where you are coming from. I wish you luck. I was just thinking all that engaging with her was stressful for you, and retreating for a little while might be beneficial for you. But you gotta do what you gotta do.

Thanks Jal but this isn't the time for retreating. This is the front line.