Originally Posted By: JAL
I'm sorry. But I thought this might happen. If you push someone, they might push back. Both people have to agree in order for boundaries to work. If someone is dead-set on texting, they will text.

Jal, would you give an alcoholic booze? No, of course you wouldn't. Why would you? Sometimes pushing is necessary. I'm sick of the softly softly approach. All it got me was her getting even further into her A. Nah, no longer. Done with that.

I get the lighthouse stuff but right now it's about growing a pair. No more no less.


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.