So...on a completely different note...they started installing my new floors today! They look great. The house is a wreck, all the stuff from one half is sitting all over the other half and everything is dusty, but I'm so happy.
Last week while I was gone, H came over and coordinated the painting of the girls bedrooms, moved some stuff still in his closet, and helped S19 move the piano because that's the one thing the floor people wouldn't touch. It was a huge amount of work. And he even offered to let us stay at his apartment tonight (he's out of town). All in all, he's being a real team player on this.