Joe

This is really tough as a phase. WW is doing what WW will do, lashing out.

Nothing really you can do.

If I were you I would not accept or deny anything!

Validate: "disappointed you feel that way WW"

Then STFU.

I get it WW is a pain in the neck.

I know that Joe will not be abandoning his step kids. Otherwise why bother to set boundaries, we do that with those we love. And Joe it is evident you care for your SS enough to set those boundaries.

Calm, breathe, relax.

It will be alright in the end and if it's not alright it's not the end and besides the fat lady hasn't sung yet!

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 06/09/15 09:17 PM.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW