I got a letter from the solicitor advising all my divorce paperwork is ready to sign and finalise. I thought I might have gotten upset about it, but at this stage no signs of any emotion. I suppose the way I have looked at it, is, the W has had numerous times she could have at least said "stop it", lets work on this. Alas no, nothing has been mentioned. Even after my reply to her answers, that I was devastated there was never a sign when she mentioned she was hoping we could work on our marriage. I suppose I look at it the way a lot of other before me have: that is she says one thing, but acts a different way. While it isn't the way I had hoped my marriage might have turned out way back when this happened. I also have gotten to the point where I am comfortable with how I have tried and where I am now. I have another beautiful partner, who later this year, will hopefully be more than a partner. I won't be turning back to my W, there was a lovely marriage for 23 years, lovely moments and two fantastic sons. It is finished. I am now moving onto my next fantastic life and great moments and memories.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
