Oh I have that same highlight list documented ... along with the "I haven't loved you in 2,4,10 years ... " its almost laughable to a point the absurd stuff that's in their noggins and even funnier when it comes screaming out of the fly trap.
When I went through mediation the last time ... lol I laugh as I type that .. ya know .. the one in Mar15, I was really at peace with what I had done to that point and even more so I felt W needed D just to be able to get on with her journey ... I wanted that for her, I still feel MIL is 'stuck' and I cared enough about W to let her go .. even if it meant happiness with OM and not me, tough pill to swallow ... and it stung but I was done with the drama and the hate, I wanted off the ride honestly.
Your W will most likely spin a bit more with the L and D talks ... as far as meeting the AP ... thats not typical, maybe its a "See isnt she just wonderful, now you can see why I am going to be so happy" type move. .... I am scratching my head on that one.
A few months ago while W was in share mode, she had told me that OM lied to OMW that he in fact had met me .... my wife shared with OMW that in fact never happened and if it ever did .. in her words it would have been 'fatal' .... that did make me smile a bit, I am not sure what I would have ever done had I met OM, but I allowed myself a fantasy or two...lol. I do not consider myself a violent guy, but push comes to shove I have no problem jumping in to the ruckus....hahaha.
