Ok, so walking into the dining room and WW is texting OM. She twitched when I walked in but I was cool. I didn't bite. I saw his name on her phone and she knows I saw it.
You really need to set a firm boundary on no texting or phoning OM while in or around the house. We worked with Train on this boundary and it worked.
how about I text them both? In a single message. Yea, did that. She didn't realise I caught her. So what do I do? Honest answers please because like I said she doesn't see herself as married any more. I laid down that boundary a while back.
I would have arched an eyebrow and said, "Really?!" while looking at her straight in the eyes.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.