In need of encouragement. Struggling to not send text to H wishing him happy birthday today. When you have been fired from being a wife to your cheating H and they are not treating you as friend with their lying and deceit, they don't deserve such acknowledgement, right?

I am sure if I send it he would just ignore it anyway and I don't want or need that rejection. How is this my life right now? I am strong believer in karma and feel like I must have messed up somewhere to be given this.

Last edited by BW05; 06/09/15 07:42 PM.

Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015